Patriachy And How It Can Affect You!
It's no secret that this is a tough time to be a woman, especially in the United States. The #MeToo and Time's Up movements have helped expose the deep-seated sexism that is still prevalent in our society. But it turns out this misogyny has been going on since women first started fighting for the right to vote.
Despite all of those obstacles, many women have taken these struggles as an opportunity to learn how to stand up for themselves and present themselves confidently.
Here are some of the ways you can protect yourself against sexism.
1. Think twice before posting anything online
Social media has provided a platform for people to interact and share their lives. But it also gives people the opportunity to insult, harass, and spread harmful rumors about you.
Think before you post anything on social media because once it's out there, you can't take it back.
2. Don't try to impress others by being too nice
It's very hard to tell a man that he's being sexist or he treats you in a certain way. But it is possible and it is something men need to learn.
Learn how to stand up for yourself, but don't throw the baby out with the bath water. If a man has a bad day, remember that not everyone is like him and there are still people who will treat you with respect and kindness.
3. Avoid situations where you feel uncomfortable
You aren't always going to be in the mood for a party, networking event, or even a business lunch. If it makes you anxious or uncomfortable, don't force yourself to go.
There will be other opportunities to network. You don't owe anyone anything and if you aren't comfortable, then it's not worth your while.
4. Remember that you are never "asking for it"
Never send an inappropriate picture of yourself, wear something you know is too revealing, or make your personal information (including your address) public online.
It doesn't matter if you didn't do it on purpose. You are still responsible even if someone else took advantage of the situation. Always be aware of your surroundings and steer clear of any risky situations.
5. Don't let men decide what you wear
Men don't respect women enough to let them make their own choices when it comes to dressing. If a man tries to give you fashion advice, ignore it because you know better.
Instead, dress the way that makes you feel comfortable and beautiful. People who are proud of themselves are respected and considered attractive whether they're dressed in jeans or a ball gown. So don't let men try to tell you how your outfit makes you look.
6. If you're feeling uncomfortable, leave
One of the easiest ways to not tolerate sexism is to simply stop tolerating it. If you feel like someone is being sexist and making you uncomfortable, leave.
If they continue, they are being disrespectful and rude. It's ok to give them the cold shoulder until they apologize.
7. Don't tolerate disrespect
If a man is disrespectful or rude, don't keep it to yourself. Let him know that you are not ok with his behavior.
He may give you an excuse, but you can stand your ground and refuse to accept any excuses because they're not making any sense. Most importantly, don't tolerate anyone who doesn't respect your boundaries.
8. Be proud of yourself
It's ok to take pride in yourself. You are you, and are the person who knows you the best.
Respect what you value and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If a man makes you feel like your choices are wrong, that's his problem and it has nothing to do with you.
9. Don't be afraid to ask for more
Don't be afraid to ask for what you deserve. If someone doesn't respect your boundaries, don't let them.
Don't give them a chance to realize their mistake. Just know your value and be confident in what you deserve because the next person will treat you even better.
10. Learn more about sexism
There is a lot about sexism that men need to understand. It's important that they know what makes women uncomfortable.
Point out sexism when you see it and explain why it is wrong. Be sure to give examples and talk about how it's wrong. Men need to know why sexism is wrong so they can have a better understanding of how to treat women with respect.
Knowing what we do now about the Patriarchy, let us re-evaluate the way we go on in life.
Conclusion:
The first step towards positive change is knowing how to identify something for what it is. Most of us are not taught enough about the Patriarchy, which leaves us unaware of how it affects our daily lives.
Feminism isn't just the movement to bring women up to the same level as men, but also the movement to teach men respect, sensitivity and awareness of their behavior and treatment towards women around them.