Attraction : How to Get What You Want From Anyone You Meet
In this post, we're going to explore the art of attraction. You'll learn how to identify your own strengths and weaknesses that may be interfering with you getting what you want from people. You'll also learn how to communicate effectively with the opposite sex in order to make them attracted towards you. Lastly, I will introduce you two other methods for achieving what you want from anyone that could lead to better results than the previous method (which is not very reliable).
The first method which can lead to better results is called "indirect" seduction. This is where you make the person you want attracted to you without the person being aware that he/she is attracted to you. This method requires much more planning than the previous method, however, it can be done in many different ways. For starters, let's take a look at how indirect seduction was used by Chatman in the movie "Rounders".
In "Rounders" there are two main characters: Mike (played by Edward Norton) and Worm (played by John Malcovich). They were "debt collectors" for poker players who didn't pay up (this usually involved Mike and Worm playing against one of them using their own money until they paid back what they owe). Mike is introduced to the game of poker by his law school friend Teddy (played by John Turturro). During the film, Mike is seen using indirect seduction on two occasions, once with a waitress and once with a set of twins. He used indirect seduction to get what he wanted from them without them being aware that they were attracted to him.
Now let's take a look at how Mike used indirect seduction on the waitress:
At the start of this scene, Mike introduces himself to the waitress: "Hey, my name's Mike McDermott" and shakes her hand. The reason he does this is because it gives him an opportunity to gauge whether or not she likes him. He's hoping that the way she shakes his hand means that she likes him. If so, then he can get what he wants from her (the service at the restaurant) without her being aware of it. He does this because indirect seduction works by finding out what your woman thinks about you before you even start asking her out on an actual date.
After this, Mike proceeds to order drinks for him and Worm from the waitress: "Do you have any Scotch?" "Yeah, we've got scotch." After this response (which he strategically makes so it sounds like it was a question), Mike and Worm start laughing which allows him to gauge whether or not she is attracted to them. He is also trying to make it seem like he is not trying to be rude and that she is making a good first impression of them.
After this introductory conversation, Mike says: "Listen, thanks for the drink." Worm then proceeds to say "No problem – the check's on us" which allows Mike and Worm to gauge whether or not she likes them. At this point, they have already determined (via indirect seduction) that she likes them just by hearing her voice when they ordered drinks. However, they proceed with indirect seduction to see how far they can push the envelop before she pushes back. This is where the seduction begins.
After this, Mike says: "Are you kidding me? You're not having a drink on my dime." Worm responds with: "No way, man. It's on us." Mike then says: "You know what? Thank you very much, but we can't do that." Which is a line that guys use to indirectly communicate to a woman that they want to spend time with them (without coming across as too eager). Mike wants her to be the one who asks for their phone number rather than the other way around. His goal here is to find out if she likes him. He does this by turning down their offer in a very polite and indirect way.
After this, Mike then says: "Listen, we're here to talk about our game tonight." After this response, Worm says: "Yeah, we are. What's the deal?" At this point, Mike and Worm have already determined that she likes them. They want to know how close she is to the mark with them so they can gauge her reactions when they ask for their phone number. This is also a line that guys use to indirectly communicate to women that they want to spend time with them. Mike asks this question because he wants her to suggest that they go out on a date.
After the waitress says: "I'm sorry" from laughing, Mike then says: "No, its okay. I know why." This response is what Mike hopes will happen because it's an opportunity for her to ask for their phone number. Mike does this because he wants her to ask for their phone number, not the other way around. More specifically, he wants her to be the one who suggests that they go out on a date with them without coming across as too eager.
After this, Mike says: "It's because you're busy." Worm then replies with: "Well, yeah". This response shows that she usually doesn't take orders from guys (as a waitress) and is used to the guys asking her out. Mike used indirect seduction in order to find this out without her being aware that he was doing it. By doing so, he can now gauge whether or not she likes him. More specifically, he can gauge how far he can push the envelop before she pushes back.
During this conversation, Mike and Worm have been watching her body language for signs that she likes them. They also use indirect seduction to find out what her intentions are with them. During the scene, Mike and Worm have already determined that she likes them. They now want to know how close she is to the mark with them so they can gauge her reactions when they ask for their phone number. This is why Mike asks the question: "Can we buy you a drink?"
After this question, Worm then continues a conversation about baseball by saying: "That's why I got rid of cable in my place. I mean – you know – I can get it at this bar down the street on Saturday." After this conversation, Mike says: "I miss these things.
Conclusion
In this article, you were introduced to indirect seduction and how you can use it in order to get girls attracted to you without them even realizing that it's happening. You were also given examples of how Mike used indirect seduction to get what he wanted from the waitress in Rounders. However, one thing you should remember is that indirect seduction doesn't always work. In fact, experience shows that most women won't respond well at all when men use it on them. This is because most girls are very protective of their emotions and don't like being manipulated in any way, shape or form (no matter how much they pretend that they like guys who do).