Spirituality Information - Journey In The Fields Of Forever ( Part 37 )
In this article, I will be giving you advice on how to overcome people’s condemnation in your life.
In the past, these critics have said things to hurt you. Some of these comments may have been about something that is true about yourself. What matters is not their opinion of you, but what you think about yourself. You need to know that there are people who love and appreciate you just the way that you are in spite of any deficiencies which they may see in your personality or personal life.
You are a spiritual being. You are here for a reason. The reason is to learn about your true nature so that you can refine it and fulfill your destiny.
It is okay if not everyone on Earth appreciates your presence, especially if they are not in alignment with God’s plan for you. Just do what you came here to do and let the rest of the noise go by without affecting you.
One of the most important lessons in life is learning how to value yourself and to love yourself unconditionally. You are just as valuable as anyone else. You were also created in the image of God, so even if you have done something wrong, you still deserve to be loved.
So, what is your challenge ? It's this: do not ever allow a critic to take away your self-worth or confidence in yourself. Your worst critic doesn't matter; it's their words which will crush you and make you feel inferior. The best thing that anyone can do for you is to love and respect you for who and what you are, with all of your flaws. They may try to criticize one aspect of who you are - but when they do this they will be attacking the core of who you are.
One of the most important things to remember is that you are responsible for your own happiness. If you listen to critics, then you are giving them the power to make you unhappy. PLEASE do not ever give anyone that much control over your happiness. If someone says something negative about you, just say to yourself: "I am not my critics; I am myself."
Also remember that it is very easy to make a fool out of someone who has not learned self love. Showing others how much you love and respect yourself is a very powerful way of dealing with negativity and criticism. It shows them that they do not have power over you.
The truth is that people who criticize you are usually unhappy themselves. You can only control your own happiness, so don't take the opinion of others too seriously. I know it may be hard to believe, but their comments do not mean anything in your life, nor do they have any relevance to what you should be doing with your life. They are powerless to affect you unless you allow them to have power over you. Be proud of who and what you are and they will have no effect on your happiness whatsoever.
Now, a few suggestions to help you with the people who don’t seem to like you:
1. Be happy with yourself. Love yourself and be proud of your "self." People who are unlovable are usually unable to accept love themselves because they see it as a weakness in them. They try to make you feel inferior so that they can feel superior. So, love yourself! Let go of any insecurities or fears that stop you from loving and respecting yourself. You are here on Earth to be loved, so don't hold back from loving yourself!
2. Be confident in yourself. Always act with confidence, even if it is not true inside your heart. If you feel insecure, continue to act confidently. Fake it until you make it.
3. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for being who you are and doing what you want to do with your life. If a person offers criticism about something that is not important for your life, just say "Thank You" and ignore their negativity because it has no power over you unless you give it power.
4. Change things about yourself if necessary - but only in order to expand on the best parts of yourself rather than trying to be perfect or ordinary like others do. For example, you could change your beliefs, perhaps by becoming more aware of God and the truth. Or you could change your behavior, for example by becoming more disciplined or making an effort to be kinder to others. If you decide to change something about yourself, it is vital that you do it for the right reasons and that you do so from a higher perspective than just trying to please others. Otherwise, it won't last long!
5. Don’t let yourself become fixated on the negative aspects of life. Keep a positive focus in your mind at all times; strive toward positive goals in your life and rise above any difficulties which come up for you. When you focus on your positives, you will feel better and have more confidence in yourself. There is always something to be grateful for in life, and there are always good things happening even if they are not apparent to the human eye. The big picture is about the eyes of God, the Creator of all. You see the true nature of life in God’s vision. Therefore, always focus on what you see from this perspective! With this mind-set, there will be no negativity for you to face in your life.
6. Confidence is truly something you must learn. Confidence comes from within. It’s an inner gift which only you can give yourself. Only you can develop your self-confidence and positive self-image.
7. Follow your heart and all that is good in life. Live according to the guidance of your own kind heart, not the expectations of others or what they say about you.
8. Let go of any negative people in your life, even if they are family members, love ones or close friends - unless they have true value for your life (if this is the case, be sure to keep them close but protect yourself from their negativity).
9. Do not ever feel guilty for being who you are. This is an essential ingredient in the recipe for happiness.
10. Don't be ruled by fear. Fear is very common, especially in Western society where we are told to be successful and to struggle through life just so we can keep up with our peers and/or survive on what we have been conditioned to believe is our owed right of passage - being able to pay the bills, eat, survive and have "fun" or a good life (whatever that means). The truth is that there has never been a time in history when the world has needed love more than now! Life can be much better than we think it can be.
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Conclusion
I hope that these tips will help you in your journey to live a more loving, happy and meaningful life. I know that if you follow them and use them in your life, your life will become much better. Remember that being yourself is the key to happiness. Learn to learn from others, but don't let anyone make you feel guilty about being who you are.