The Importance of Holding
Did you know that recent research has shown that holding hands with someone could prevent the flu? If you want to avoid catching the bug, make sure to hold hands with your partner every day. Those who held hands for ten minutes a day were 75% less likely to get sick. This is just one of the many health benefits of hand-holding, which is why it’s so important to do it frequently!
For more tips on ways in which holding your partner can improve your life, check out this blog post. It features some of the best hand-holding secrets out there! _____
The importance of holding: Tell me if this sounds familiar... you love your partner, but you're not that into holding hands. You often find yourself avoiding doing it, even when there are no strangers around. Do you struggle in this area? Share your thoughts in the comments section!
After reading these posts from Art Of Manliness , I was inspired to write this post on "The Importance of Holding" as well!
I used to think that my partner loved me, but it turns out that she really doesn't care all too much about me. This is why I need to hold her hand more.
I used to think that my boyfriend loved me, but it turns out that he really doesn't care all too much about me. This is why I need to hold his hand more.
My girlfriend used to be into holding hands and cuddling, but now she's not as into it. Now that she's gone on a few dates with another guy, I get the feeling that she doesn't really want to be holding hands with me anymore!
People often say that they feel like there is a tug-of-war going on when they are in relationships: there are the two of them (the woman and the man), and then there is the relationship itself. It's a tug-of-war because the two of them want to be held, but the relationship wants to be independent. The relationship says "Hold hands... just hold hands," but the woman and man say "Let's keep holding hands."
So what do you think is going on in this situation?
The man and woman are trying to figure out how to make both of their wants get met at once. They are trying to have their own independent relationship, but also be held by another person. They are trying to have their cake and eat it too!
The only way this situation can get better is if these two people learn how to resolve the tug-of-war within them. Since they are both in the relationship, they will both need to find a solution instead of trying to find a way for one person (the other) to solve their problems for them.
My girlfriend used to be into holding hands and cuddling, but now she's not as into it. Now that she's gone on a few dates with another guy, I get the feeling that she doesn't really want to be holding hands with me anymore!
"Holding hands" is important to both partners in a relationship. But holding hands is not very important to her. In order for this relationship to survive, I will have to show her how important it is for us by showing her more of it. Everyone has things in their lives which are more important than others.
Since she's not that into holding hands, neither am I. When I'm "not into something," I simply don't do it. Now, if we were to get into a serious relationship, then I would have to be more "into it."
I used to think that my girlfriend loved me, but it turns out that she really doesn't care all too much about me. This is why I need to hold her hand more.
"Holding hands" is important to both partners in a relationship. But holding hands is not very important for her. In order for this relationship to survive, she will have to show me how important it is for us by showing me more of it. Everyone has things in their lives which are more important than others.
So what do you think is going on in this situation?
The man and woman are trying to figure out how to make both of their wants get met at once. They are trying to have their own independent relationship, but also be held by another person. They are trying to have their cake and eat it too!
The only way this situation can get better is if these two people learn how to resolve the tug-of-war within them. Since they are both in the relationship, they will both need to find a solution instead of trying to find a way for one person (the other) to solve their problems for them.
If you are in a relationship, how often do you hold hands with the person that you are dating? Do you think about what benefits holding hands can have for your relationship? If so, feel free to share them in the comments section below!
I don't care if it's a guy or a girl, if someone holds my hand, I get excited. The other day I was walking down the street holding hands with my current boyfriend. When we were out of view from most people he told me that he wanted to kiss me - right there on the street! I didn't want to shut him down right away because it would be embarrassing, but luckily we got into my car and drove off before he tried it.
I'm not sure what happened, but I'm sure I changed the "rules" at some point. I know that when we first started holding hands it was more of a romantic gesture than something that happened casually. It makes sense, though. If you work on something for long enough and you get good at it then it becomes natural for you. Then, in order to keep things exciting, you have to change the way that you do things .
For example, if you play basketball every day then after a while you get good at it. So in order to keep getting better, you have to play with people who are better than you - or at least better than the people that you usually play with. If there aren't any other people that are better than you, then it may be time to up your game by finding a professional basketball player and challenging him or her to a game of 1-on-1!
I think this is what happened with my boyfriend and me. We've known each other for a long time , but we didn't start holding hands until recently .
Conclusion
If you are in a relationship, how often do you hold hands with the person that you are dating? Do you think about what benefits holding hands can have for your relationship? If so, feel free to share them in the comments section below!
Overall, holding hands is one of the most romantic things that a couple can do together. When I hold my boyfriend's hand I get chills down my spine! Holding hands is something that I'll never take for granted. It seems like it's not as popular as it used to be - but I'm sure that it will make a comeback someday, just like mullets (ugh....) and bell-bottoms did.